You matched. Now comes the part that makes all of us nervous: the first message. The good news is you don’t need to be witty, just specific.
1. Use something from their profile
“Is that taco in your third photo from Roma? I need the address” works much better than “hi, how are you?”. It shows you read their profile. On Datecito you see what you have in common right away: interests, music, a team or an answered prompt. Start there.
2. Ask something easy to answer
Open but light questions invite a reply: “What’s your perfect Sunday plan?”.
3. Propose soon
If the conversation flows, don’t drag it out for weeks. Tap “Propose a datecito”, pick a day and time on the calendar and turn it into a concrete plan.